1. Was thinking that, you know, sometimes if you are really learning, maybe sometimes it is worth while to spend time to revise, as long as it is education.

2. Took some time to finish the typing, translated them into my own notes

http://www.beautyexchange.com.hk/portal.php?mod=list&uid=166287&page=1

a) Waiting - You will never wait till somebody says yes, if they love you, they will never have not let you wait. Time is merely for an active mutual understanding.

b) Attachment to single - The worry of being single is more of a lack of self-appreciation, one should take some time to cultivate a proper self attitude, and not like going to clubbing where it's mere physical and face attraction.

c) Sex - The urge is merely a lack of appreciation and possession, it is necessary to learn to let go thing, have no fear and thus being able to treat your desires, your partner in a proper and agreeable manner.

d) Flirting - Even though sometimes it would be worth while seeing who's a better match, still, doing it in a pack of people who knows each other would be disgusting, even though such is commonplace enough. I call it diversionary stupidity. It doesn't matter who you are or how you look.

e) Swift break-up - The delay with eventually lead to an indulgence, more of a dependency theory. If you have to break up, break, and let the wound heal, do not delay. Still, I think an apology/ vote of thanks is necessary, recognise things the others have done for you is always necessary. Thanking doesn't mean being not who you are, trying to fake.

f) Dating - It is more of an opportunity to let each other developing their likes to love, and we have to realise both of the parties are on an equal footing. There is no chase, there is just understanding and assessments between each other. You choose other, other chooses you.

g) Reality and Imagination - Be considerate and reasonable to the expectations in a relationship, do realise what you are looking for and make sure you also know things are not perfect, there are give and take. You have to be able to endure some to get some.

h) Be friends with ex -  There is no necessity to be friends with ex, the residual image and memory can cause discomfort. I think generally it is acceptable to be so, as long as it is an open option up to each individual, if you want to close a wound, close it firm and clean cut. Then don't touch it again. Friends are not in short supply. There is always replace. Be hopeful for him or her doesn't mean you have to keep in touch with him/her.

i) Hide smartness - There is no appeasement policy, you should not play dumb (girls) or play smart (boys) in order to get somebody by not being yourself. You are always yourself, and you have to show confidence, you don't get bothered with being single by losing your own confidence and appreciation in yourself, being too desperate. I know, it sounds tricky, because you are not solving the problem by seeing it as not a problem. But perhaps, it can be the solution.

j) Soulmate vs Partner - Soulmate is someone you can share ideas with and talk to freely, and often you have to hide some secrets in front of your bf/gf, soulmate as a boyfriend/girlfriend only exists in theory. The difference can perhaps be an intriguing factor in the relationship