1.Something I don't understand is that Lok Yan still puts the photo of the girl whom rejected him on his desk. That girl was mean to him, and he stills cherish it. I assume people just like licking wounds.

I am not saying that I don't, but that I would just do it mentally, practically I have a life to live on, aside from a postcard I left nothing.

People have been debating whether it is harder to keep or harder to let go. I think it is harder to let go, because it doesn't matter whether you keep it, it is always there.

2. Seeing all the great tombs, graves, courtyard of the great, reminds me one day we are all dying. If we are all dying, either we can just relax and paralyse ourselves, or we can choose to fight and achieve something great.

3. A point to add is that it is important to remeber while it is important to be clean, cleanness should not be differentiated between self and others, that you get too strict for being clean and loves to nag on it, which is kind of the same thing as loving to be on the moral highground.