It increasingly dawns on me that women know much more about men do in dating, in fact as a general rule I am consistently underestimating the perception and understanding of the others in almost all aspects of my life. Perhaps it is high time to give it some deeper thoughts, be mindful but not obsessed.

過去是自卑，然後是自大，其實不用兩極對立。

有勇氣比之前沒有勇氣好，但是就算有勇氣也要有手法，不能當頭就直接猛攻，要旁敲旁擊，高築牆廣積糧緩稱王。要是能給點耐性時刻清醒，那麼要追到意中人也就不難。不要覺得什麼都不做就是沒結果，有時候，有時候Patience is also a form of action

還有，別只喜歡一個人，當然做了女朋友老婆已經認定了雙方就不能，但是追女生不妨多追幾個。關係是雙向，你喜歡人人也不一定喜歡你，只喜歡一個人只追一個人心理反而會不平衡。認清現實，拿得起放得下，其實比較可取。

如果對方也表示喜歡你，那就一起，別再騎驢找馬花心。